Kai Silver

Fuck The World Happy

What to expect

In our work together, I draw on a range of tools to help you feel at ease, build confidence, and explore your desires through body-positive, sex-positive, and consent-centred practices.

You might come with questions like:

  • How can I increase sensation and pleasure in my body and genitals?

  • How can I regulate my arousal, erection, or orgasm (early or delayed)?

  • How can I build confidence in my sexual skills - touch, massage, oral, kissing, intercourse?

  • How do I ask for and receive feedback?

  • How do I figure out what I want? how do I ask for what I want?

  • How can I maintain a sense of pleasure and connection through stress, ageing, pregnancy, illness, injury, or disability?

Some sessions are more structured then others: we begin with a conversation, move into an embodiment or breath-based exercise, progress into hands-on or coached exploration, and finish with time to debrief and integrate.

This space welcomes the full spectrum of experience. Sexual exploration can sometimes bring feelings of unfamiliarity or vulnerability, especially when trying something new. Awkwardness, laughter, curiosity, emotion, do-overs, and the opportunity to repair are all part of a longer journey. You don’t have to get it “right”—you just have to show up.

I warmly welcome people of all sexualities and gender expressions, including LGBTQIA+, people with disabilities, and those navigating new relationships with their body or sexuality—such as during pregnancy, gender transition, or recovery from trauma.

If you have any questions about my offerings or session structure, I encourage you to get in touch.

The Pathfinder

In Swedish, the word for my role is vägledare – a pathfinder, counsel and guide. I can, if you wish, vägleda – show the way to your desires.

Here, we will take a journey of sensual exploration and pleasure discovery. I am an open and understanding person with whom you can explore your erotic potential, learn to enhance your somatic embodied experience of sexuality, and of course, your pleasure.

I bring a range of practical and hands-on approaches, shaped by my personal experience, professional training in massage, and a deep understanding of how the body holds and processes emotion. My formal experience also includes studies in Sexological Bodywork, how to work with and treat vaginismus as well as support those with disabilities. I am currently studying how to support during and after pregnancy.

We begin wherever you are in your journey, whether you're seeking healing, discovery, relaxation, or deepened embodiment. Together, we chart a course tailored to your unique needs and desires.

If you are working with a therapist or other practitioner, I am happy to be in contact with them directly, with your consent. This can support a more integrated experience, especially when exploring intimacy, sexual surrogacy, or structured touch like cuddle therapy as part of a therapeutic process.

Contact

Let me know your desire and take the step towards the life you deserve.

0434948659

contact@kaisilver.com.au